Poetically Yours - Missing You
Welcome to Poetically Yours. Poetically Yours showcases poems by mostly northern Illinois poets. This week’s featured poet lives in Oregon.
Ingrid Wendt is grew up in Aurora, Illinois. She started writing poetry at a young age, stopped and didn’t start again until she was in high school. She’s traveled the world teaching the art to students and teachers.
Wendt is also a singer and is a trained organist and pianist. Wendt said she writes to help people feel less lonely.
“Part of my goal is to write from personal experience in such a way that people find parallels in their own lives,” she explained. “I want my poems to help enrich people's understanding of themselves, and of their own experiences, and of the world.”
Wendt has a number of accolades but one thing she is most proud of was going back to her hometown and teaching at Bardwell Elementary, the school where she wrote her first poem.
Today she shares her poem “Words to Use with Caution.”
Oh, but they sounded so good when first I came across them, and so for a time
I passed them along: may memories bring you comfort.
And then I lost the one with whom I shared forty-nine years. And then, not long after, I saw
the bench along the river where he loved to sit
and watch the never-ending constellations of ducks, ducklings, and herons shifting, wild geese
gliding in for a landing and off again they’d go—
he’d sit because he couldn’t walk much further—and I needed to walk at a faster pace another twenty
minutes or so—because he wanted to take care also of me—
because he took such joy in simply being. No, that first time I went to the river alone
and saw him not there, fierce
and sudden tears punched and punched and did not stop until, back home, a neighbor with griefs of her own
put her arms around me and held me a long, long, silent time.
Friends, those memories nearly knocked me right down.
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